Ready for a committed relationship? Here are 10 tips for impressing a guy and leave a lasting Impression.
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More and more people today are using the WhatsApp to send text messages to their friends and family members. If you met a guy and you are simply in the text stage of your relationship but you want it to grow into something more, you should know how to impress a guy on WhatsApp chat so that you can go from being his texting buddy to becoming his girlfriend.
If you want to impress a boy on chat, continue reading. If he has already given you his WhatsApp information, you are in the game. He wouldn’t have given you his information if he wasn’t interested in you. After you have received the information, it is up to you to keep him interested.
How to Start and Keep a Conversation Going with a Guy
The tips listed below are a great start.
1. Don’t Appear Desperate
Most guys like a challenge. They don’t like a girl who is desperate and they don’t like a girl who seems too needy. If you want to get a boy on WhatsApp, don’t come off as desperate. If the guy you like texts you, don’t respond right away.
This will show him that you have a busy life and he isn’t the most important thing in your life. Even if you aren’t busy, you should still let him wait a few minutes before you reply. It is best that you take your time to think about the best reply possible. If you text your guy and he doesn’t respond right away, wait.
If you keep texting and texting, you will look crazy and desperate. Also, constant texting can be very annoying. You also want to avoid sending mean texts if he doesn’t reply. He could be in a meeting at work, his phone could be dead, or he could have left it in the car. When he does finally see your crazy text messages, chances are he won’t want to talk to you anymore.
2. Keep Your Messages Short
There have been plenty of surveys performed regarding long text messages and most have shown that both guys and girls get bored with a long test. If you are texting your guy and your texts read like a novel, you should delete the text and start over. You should stick with short, funny messages at first.
This will show him that you are funny, you are busy, and it will make you seem mysterious. These are all things that most guys are looking for. If you are always sending text messages that are too long, you can’t even be sure that he will read through the whole thing.
Most people scan long text messages rather than actually reading them. To keep him interested, keep your text messages short.
3. Use Emojis, But Not Too Often
If you want to impress a boy on chat with WhatsApp, you should use emojis. It can be very difficult to convey your feelings in a text message. Because of this, it is very easy for your guy to misunderstand what your texts mean.
You could be telling him something in a joking manner, but he could end up taking it seriously. This can quickly end your texting relationship with your guy so you won’t have a chance to take your relationship any further.
To be sure that your guy understands what you are trying to say, use emojis to make yourself clear. You don’t want to use them in every text that you send. This can make you look childish. You should use emojis when you are trying to convey a feeling.
You can also send a flirtatious emoji from time to time to let him know that you are interested in being more than just friends.
4. Flirt With Him During Your Text Conversations
There are some guys who aren’t very bright when it comes to women. You can be totally into a guy and he might not even realize it. If you want to keep from getting stuck in the text buddy zone, you need to be flirtatious and flirt with a guy through a chat.
This will ensure that he knows that you want to be more than just friends. The great thing about texting is that you can respond in your own time. This will give you a chance to think hard about what to say before you say it.
If you aren’t great at flirting in person, you could be a world-class text flirter. Flirting is the best way to be sure that he knows that you want more than a WhatsApp friendship.
5. Don’t Spill Your Guts in a Text
If you want to get a guy on WhatsApp, don’t text your life story. Texting is a great way to get to know someone, however, you don’t want to spill your entire life story through text messages. While it is fine to update your guy about your day and your plans, you don’t want to spill everything.
If things go your way, you will end up meeting face to face soon. If you have already told him every detail about yourself through text, you won’t have much to talk about when you finally meet in person.
Also, if you are busy telling your guy every detail about your life in text messages, you will no longer be mysterious in his eyes. Mystery is something that you want in the beginning of a blossoming relationship. You also want to avoid having ‘the talk’ during a chat.
Many guys are on WhatsApp to meet someone and have fun. If you are chatting with a guy and you start talking about your feelings,
6. Don’t Chat For Too Long
If you are chatting with your guy on WhatsApp and you don’t have much more to say or there is a lull in the conversation, abort immediately. You only want to keep a text conversation going with a guy if the conversation is interesting.
There is nothing worse than being in the middle of the world’s most boring chat. If you are the one who ends the conversation you will look less desperate and you will end the chat before he thinks that the chat is boring because you are boring.
7. Ask Open Ended Questions
If you want to chat with your guy, you need to get things going. If you simply text ‘hi’, you aren’t going to get much of a response. The same is true if you ask a simple yes or no question. If you want to start a good conversation, you need to ask the right questions.
For example, you don’t want to ask how his day was because he can reply ‘good’, which puts an end to the conversation quickly. Instead, ask him what he did today. This can open the door for a much longer, interesting chat.
8. Use His Name When Possible
One of the best tips to attract guys by texting is to use his name often. If you want your guy to know that you are interested and you want to increase the intimacy of your texts, you should use his name as often as you can.
Rather than saying ‘hi’, you can say hi and use his name. This will often result in an instant reply. When you personalize your WhatsApp messages, you will peak his interest.
9. Ask Him Questions About Himself
Some people love to talk about themselves so much that they forget that their crush may like to talk about themselves as well. When you are texting your guy, you should ask him questions about himself. Not only will it show that you are interested in getting to know him, it will give him a chance to talk about himself.
When you are asking him questions, you don’t want to send question after question. If he feels like your conversation is a job interview, it can quickly be a turn-off. You should ask him a question or two and try to build a conversation on his answers.
If you are lucky, he will start asking your questions about yourself as well, which is a good sign that he likes you.
10. Compliments Go a Long Way In a Text Conversation
Everyone likes to be complimented and your crush is no exception. You should compliment your crush on his personality, his looks, or something that he just said. It is important to understand that it is possible to compliment him too much. If you keep firing off compliments, you can start to look more like a groupie than a potential girlfriend.
If you are getting to know a guy on WhatsApp, you need to know how to text to let him know that you are interested. You also need to know what to say to make him interested in you as well. If you follow the tips for texting your crush listed above, you have a great chance of becoming more than his texting buddy. Before you know it, you could be going out on dates together.
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Good luck and Love,