10 Tips to Get a Girl on WhatsApp

Would you like to get a girl through WhatsApp but don’t know how exactly to do that? This article is going to give you some good tips for impressing girls just using your messages alone.

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I can admit that it can be pretty tough for boys to get an idea of how to impress a girl on WhatsApp that they might like. All social media is a minefield, especially when conversations are happening over WhatsApp chats and text, it could be really easy to be rejected and the feel this anxiety all the time.

Allow me to introduce myself. I am Frankie Caruso and I have spent the past five years analyzing and testing every type of text message a man might send to a woman.

Many are often worried that they say the wrong thing when sending a message that could convey the wrong idea. Worse yet, she may not even know that you are flirting.

Trust me, we all have these concerns.

Additionally, you have the dilemma of choosing a topic that keeps her interest while sending flirtatious text that cannot get misconstrued as sleazy or dirty. Too much and she loses interest rapidly.

Seem like it is an overwhelming task? Welcome to the club. No need to worry however, because today I’m going to give you 10 Tips to Impress the Girl of Your Dreams Using WhatsApp. This guide is going to help her see that you are the one for her.

Before you read into the 10 tips that I will provide, you should check out another excellent guide called Obsession Method. I was able to get a lot of valuable information about my texting experiments here.

Really, this is nothing but a simple guide providing real examples to help illustrate points. The author offers multiple obstacles you might face and the best approaches they determine to overcome them. Use this the gain some perspective about who is getting your messages and learn many of the common mistakes that boys make when they message girls.

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Frankie’s Take:

Below you are going to find some excellent tips to help you land your crush. Apart from these, I would also recommend learning some good WhatsApp tricks that can come in handy while chatting with the love of your life.

10 Tips to Impress a Girl Through WhatsApp

1. Keep It Clean

There is no girl worth your time that once someone speaking dirty to her right off the bat. Women like to be made to feel special. Think about what you want to say, keep it flirty and fun to get started.

This is going to be sure to grab her interest and will keep her talking to you. As things progress, you will have your opportunity to take this WhatsApp chat to another level. In the beginning, keeping it clean is the only respectable way to go.

No girl wants to listen to some sleazy guy drone on about crass things. Sure as the sun rises, you will never hear from her again. In his all about the appropriate timing and balance of your conversation using all the tips that you will learn through this article.

Frankie’s Take

Most girls do not like to hear a guy talk dirty out of the gate. There are certain contexts where you can use off language like this, but initial chats with a girl is not one of them.

2. Timing is Everything

Sending messages via WhatsApp chat at night is a great place to start. She will be thinking about you when she goes to sleep.

The nighttime is ideal because most people tend to have less going on and all of their friends around – which inevitably hinder any hope of good conversation.

A good morning message, however, is a great small way of telling her you are thinking of her.

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Frankie’s Take:

Timing is everything in life, and this conversation with her is no exception. Determine the best times to talk to avoid issues of her being busy or studying.

3. Short Messages Are Always Better

If you begin with shorter messages on WhatsApp, you add a sense of mystery. This is likely to keep her interested and less likely for her to be bored rather than waiting on your long winded messages to arrive.

Let’s begin with something simple like hi or hey. Maybe how’s it going. If she asks if you’ve had a good day, there’s no need to tell her everything. Just say great thanks. Short and sweet is a guaranteed winner.

She will be more attentive to ask what you’ve been doing, who you were with, and similar questions if you only say that your day was great. Also, this is better than you rambling on about nothing.

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Frankie’s Take:

Try to always keep this principle in mind. Learning how to talk to a girl without making the conversation boring is essential. This boredom can strike fast when people are chatting on WhatsApp and wait for long answers.

4. Use Her Name

This is more of a subconscious step, but when you start your message with her name, she knows that you are speaking to her and only her. No girl wants to think that she’s getting a message a boy is sending to every girl that he knows. “Hey, Lisa” is enough. Keep it simple and upbeat.

It is absolutely imperative that you always spell her name correctly and use the right name. Errors like this will cause her to lose interest immediately and end the conversation.

If you make this mistake, then you can kiss any opportunity of getting further with this girl goodbye. She needs to feel like she is the only special person in your life.

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Frankie’s Take:

The sound of someone’s own name is often the favorite melody to a suitor. Use the girls name often during your chat and make sure not to misspell it. Screwing it up early is a surefire way to blow your chance before it ever became one.

5. Make Her Smile

Humor can never be undersold. When you are sending messages through WhatsApp, everybody loves to laugh. Girls like a man who could make them smile, and this is a surefire way that you can impress her without trying hard.

Now this does not mean to go overboard and tell dumb jokes, teasing a girl in a playful manner can keep her interested well chatting with you on WhatsApp. This also helps to make her feel more comfortable and therefore attracted to you.

Making fun of yourself in a joking way is sure to raise a smile as well as interest in you as well. Remember, don’t go overboard. Humor might be great, but if she gets the impression you won’t take anything seriously, this is just as bad. Keep it balanced.

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Frankie’s Take:

I should reiterate here that keeping it clean is important period dirty jokes with the guys might be great for a laugh, but the girl you are trying to impress will not be happy with those same types of jokes. As time goes on and things progress, you will get an idea of what type of humor she likes and tailor your delivery to this. Until you’ve spoken for a while, it is a better practice to keep the humor is clean as possible.

6. Keep on Flirting

Flirting is often what pushes you over the line between somebody that could be a love interest for her and someone she considers to be a friend. In the beginning when chatting on WhatsApp, remember to keep flirting clean and subtle. She is not your girlfriend, just someone you are interested in.

Flirting makes the girl feel special and is a great way to get off to a good start. Gentle teasing, flirty humor, and subtle positive comments are the perfect approach to getting your flirting off the ground.

Remember to draw a line between clean and positive flirting and gross and sleazy flirting. Something you might think is subtle could scream disgusting to her. Make sure to read through your messages before you hit send.

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Frankie’s Take:

You should always flirt with her and never let yourself stay in the friend zone. Flirting should never be forced, however. It also should not be out of context or dirty. Try to flirt sensibly and in a balanced way that makes sense in your conversation.

7. Don’t Look So Desperate

Bar none this is one of the worst possible things you can do. It will ruin any chance of impressing a girl. She will be driven away entirely because desperation is very off-putting.

You have to maintain a balance of showing interest but not seeming desperate. This is essential in successfully getting this girl to like you. Confidence will help, because this will inevitably impress the girl you are chatting with on WhatsApp.

This means that as soon as you get a message from her on WhatsApp, whatever you do, don’t jump to answer it right away. Give it a little time to breathe. Don’t wait too long to respond, but just enough so you don’t seem quite so desperate for her interaction.

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Frankie’s Take:

Much like boys, girls enjoy their space. You have to maintain the appropriate balance of not playing too hard to get while adding some mystery to the mix about you.

8. Don’t Always Be Available to Chat

Ironically enough, impressing a girl on WhatsApp can often mean being unavailable. This is what will make her realize she misses having those chats with you.

Over a period of a month or so, try to make yourself unavailable for just a couple of days.

Is another way to make sure you don’t seem desperate as well. As the adage goes, ‘absence makes the heart grow fonder.’

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Frankie’s Take:

Humans are developed with a cognitive bias. This makes us interested in things we are not sure we can have. Show your interest in the girl, but don’t let her think that she can have you and your attention whenever she so desires.

9. Compliments are King

Women are wired to want to feel good, and this often happens by getting compliments. This can change their entire outlook on a person, as well as making a day brighter when it wasn’t going so well.

As with these other tips, going overboard could cause this process to backfire and leave the girl feeling embarrassed or awkward. Similarly, too much can also leave you coming across as desperate. This is a great way to chat to someone you might not know very well on WhatsApp.

Compliments about her clothes, hair, or skin rather than her figure are guaranteed to land well. Not everyone is born with the body of a supermodel, and even if she does have supermodel looks, this will just make it seem as if you’re only interested in her appearance and not who she is as a person.

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Frankie’s Take:

Girls just want to feel special. You give a girl compliment at the right moment and this is a sure way for her to be smiling and paying more attention to you and your conversation.

10. Leave Her Wanting More of You

When you are chatting with a girl on WhatsApp, make sure to end conversations on a high note. You can choose to end the conversation when you feel it is running out of steam before things get to a weird space.

This will make her look forward to chatting with you again because she will have much more to ask you and want to talk about. This also makes you come across as less boring.

A conversation is starting to wind down and needs to be stopped to ensure that interest levels stay high.

Gotta go, talk tomorrow’ is the perfect means of ending a conversation. To her, you have something else you need to do other than chat on WhatsApp, she is left with the mystery of what that could be and is anxious to find out more.

A WORD OF CAUTION

It is important to note that spelling is critical. That may sound like something you hear at school, but taking time to check that you have spelled everything correctly makes you stand out. A girl likes to see a boy who took time and effort into messages that he has sent.

The real takeaway here is that you are someone who is intelligent. You can hold a conversation and are actually interested in her and what she has to say. With so many people now choosing text speak over actual full words, this might take a little extra time to check your WhatsApp message before hitting send. But this is a subtle yet strong way to show that you are interested in the girl.

You might want to check outTaking to Girls Without Any Foolishness

3 Things to Know When You Are Chatting to a Girl on WhatsApp

Here is the first thing you need to keep in mind.

1. Who Cares About Perfect Messages? Be You

It is not at all uncommon for men to overthink about what they intend to text a girl.

They get anxious about writing this or that word. It makes chatting almost impossible.

Ironically enough, the more afraid of sending the wrong text message you become, the more you increase your chances of not actually getting a reply. The back and forth will drive you nuts. Here is an easy way to avoid this problem: stop caring so much about her reaction.

Yes, there are tricks to get a reply, but the last thing you need to do is stop being yourself to follow a script of techniques that don’t actually sound like you at all.

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Frankie’s Take:

Don’t lose your mind focusing on all of these extra things. Be you and only you. Techniques can be a supplement to help you move the conversation along, but don’t lose yourself in that somewhere. You are better off making a mess of a conversation than never doing anything – so just go for it.

2. Other Guys Are Texting Her

Half of men don’t know, and the other half will conveniently forget that any cute girl is likely to have multiple conversations and notifications on WhatsApp happening at any time.

Do you realize how many guys are willing to text a girl behind a screen because they are less exposed and vulnerable? You were doing it yourself, so surely someone else is as well.

Don’t be afraid of her being particularly sensitive to WhatsApp flirt, because she receives this sort of thing a lot. If she’s not telling you, it’s so that you do not get upset.

Being one of several guys might seem discouraging, but if you see it from the other perspective, it’s also a little freeing. You can more easily push limits and feel a little less stressed knowing that the field is a little wider.

Consider it like being afraid to raise your voice in the middle of a library when everyone is silent, but you don’t have that same feeling when you are inside of a stadium during a game. You aren’t afraid to speak up.

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Frankie’s Take:

The best thing you could do for yourself is to get it in there and give it your best shot. Don’t be scared off by competition. Make it an incentive to be more creative and unique and earn her time.

3. She May Stop Responding at Random

If guys are experienced with texting girls, they realize that at some point they may just up and stop texting back altogether.

I have witnessed a man’s reaction when she suddenly stops answering, especially if he learns that she saw the message but chose not to respond.

The first reaction is always astonishment, and this is quickly followed by annoyance. Finally, the guy will start uttering phrases like “How come she didn’t reply? I wrote her such a nice message and she was into it. Why?

Phase three is anxiety that follows and other conversations they are inevitably going to have with girls. This anxiousness relates to the fact that at any point she could stop responding.

This anxious man will come up with every possible trick to keep the conversation going even beyond its reasonable limits.

I have been here myself. It is not an attractive place to be. In fact, this is an awful chain that leads you nowhere. I wanted to make sure you avoided it by mentioning it here.

So how do you avoid it?

First, start with the idea that at any point she may not answer you back. You don’t have the luxury of stressing about that. You could also be amazing on WhatsApp and have great conversations, but for some reason it just doesn’t workout.

So, then you ask: why would she not respond to my messages?

There are only one of two possible reasons:

  • She isn’t interested
  • She’s doing something else

Was a kind of a cowardly way to tell you that she’s not interested, sure, but you have to consider that a woman doesn’t want to openly reject a guy to make him upset and feel bad. The thought in this process is that you will figure it out for yourself.

Yet another reason why she might not answer you this because she’s doing other things at the moment. She could be studying or working, she could be messaging a different friend about important things, she could be arguing with somebody, there are thousands of possibilities.

A girl is always involved and whatever she is doing on an emotional level.

A classic girl might be taking an exam or finishing a job for her boss, so she is always excited and involved. So, imagine her getting your flirty text in the middle of all that with no hope of really continuing that conversation for some time. If enough time passes, she might forget she saw it at all.

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Frankie’s Take:

You must account for the possibilities that she might stop responding, but that shouldn’t wreck your ego or your feelings. Feel bad for never trying, not when you did, and they didn’t work out.

FAQ

Should I be using voice messages?

Many underestimate the power of voice messages, so in turn, they rarely use them. This is very wrong, especially if you are messaging a girl that you have not met yet.

Emoji can help to provide context to your statements, but they don’t come close to matching your voice, accent, and inflection.

Consider that, very often, voice messages are a starting point for new conversations. Rarely does the first voice message you receive go unnoticed and in truth, two things will almost always happen:

  • She will comment on your voice
  • She will also reply with a voice message herself

Now, you might be saying that’s it? But this is more than you might think. Most conversations happen in writing, offering very little emotion to statements made.

One of the ways that you could stand out from the crowd is doing something different, so you were heard, quite literally. She could perceive you as being closer than you might actually be.

It is good to hear the tone of the voice of the person you hope to be dating. This applies to you both. So trust me, try out a voice message.

How often should I send WhatsApp chat messages to a girl?

One of the easy principles here is to delay her time slightly. The objective is to delay her response time a little bit.

If she responds to you right away, my advice is to reply back to her just a little later than that.

If she responds after one or two minutes, you can write back in three or four. You are sending a signal that you are not fond of her but at the same time you do care. This creates some anticipation and makes the conversation more intriguing overall.

Are there common mistakes to avoid?

There are two terrible habits and mistakes that you can avoid while chatting with somebody on WhatsApp. The first is not being ironic and the second is being oppressive.

I really could be a powerful tool when dealing with games of seduction on WhatsApp. Sending a girl funny photos and memes, surprising her with an ironic answer to a serious question, or charming her with other examples like this could be a great way to raise her interest.

Women do not like potential partners who indulge in existential talk on WhatsApp (there will be time for those sorts of conversations in the future.)

you should keep conversations informal and lighthearted whenever possible. This is the only way to pave the road it’s successfully play the seduction game on WhatsApp with potential partner.

Conclusion

So that is what you need to know. If you want to get in a relationship with a girl, there are 10 tips above that can help you impress a girl on the WhatsApp chats. Sure, it seems like there may be a lot of do this and don’t do that, but everything in these tips ensures that you impress the girl you like.

If the girl still isn’t interested after you put so much effort in, then maybe she isn’t the one that you should be with. Keep in mind, some girls are shy and don’t know how to respond initially. So, invest your time, but if it’s not working out, just don’t beat yourself up about it and move on.

Many girls would love a boy to spend time chatting to them on WhatsApp. If a girl seems uninterested, it is likely not worth wasting your time on. Lots of girls would love to chat with a guy that can flirt, be respectful, and compliment her. She will especially like it if that same guy is mysterious and interesting at the same time.

I want to remind you that I have written about WhatsApp tricks that could also come in handy when you chat with girls on the app. Take a look at this article.

Go ahead and write that WhatsApp message to the girl you like. Live a little. You might just find that she is the girl of your dreams after all.

Cheers and good luck,

Frankie

PSHow do you text a girl? I have 100 great examples of messages that you can send to your dream girl.

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About Frankie Caruso

Hello! I am Frankie Caruso and I love to fiddle with all of the popular messaging applications with the hacking techniques that I love. I want to find out how to breach the defenses of these apps and exploit weaknesses.